A loving, romantic relationship depends on how well you connect with your partner, and, whether or not you have a certain level of understanding, trust and compatibility with them. But do you really think, that’s all it takes to decide whether your partner is really your soul mate?
We spoke to a few women to find out what according to them are the ideal qualities their soul-mate must have. Here’s a checklist that you can compare to and don’t forget to leave your must-have qualities list in comments below.
He must be attractive (to you)!
Choose someone who you find attractive not just physically but mentally too. He doesn’t have to be the best looking guy around the block; he just has to be the best-looking guy for you!
He must believe in you!
The first step to building a beautiful, romantic relationship is to respect and trust one another. You partners must be someone who is secure and does not feel threatened if you decide to go out with other friends, or if you want to take up a great work or personal opportunity that will change your life for good. An ideal partner will always look out for you, but at the end will let you make your decisions for yourself.
He must like you for you!
If he loves you, he ought to love everything about you. The beauty of finding a soul mate is that they fall in love with your little imperfections too. Whether it is your crooked smile, your strong opinions or your offbeat fetishes. Your idea soul mate will never try to change you; he will in fact embrace you and your cute, quirky qualities.
He must be able to see things from your perspective!
Everyone has their own opinion and ideas, but when you find the one you truly consider your soul-mate, he will know how to see things the way you see it. He may not necessarily agree to all of your beliefs but he’d try his best to understand them and adapt them. Your ideal soul-mate is like your own mind and emotions but in a different body.
He must share major life goals with you!
He will be someone who will look at the future just like you do. His major life goals will involve you, and, his life decisions will be made involving you.
If you have found your soul mate, hold on to him my friend. If you are still looking, ask yourself these questions ladies and when you find him, ensure you are his ideal soul-mate too!
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